There's probably many of us at some point who had to endure the pain of being bullied. Having people team up against you while others just sit and watch because they're too afraid to speak up and be treated the "uncool" one. Most of us suffer in silence , with hearts crushed, Cryely reigns. The best thing to do is walk away, It doesn't mean u're coward , It just means ,You're the bigger person but If you did try walking away, and they still won't stop , Do not be afraid to ask for help. Its okay to stand up for yourself cos The truth of the matter is ...Bullies..are the real weaklings! They are weak in spirit, its just a facade to do away from the fact that they have nothing else going for them. They want attention cos they know of no other way to fit in socially. They know none of compassion cos they were not taught that . They are insecure beings who wants to drag people into their misery. So insecure that the only way they could feel good about themselves is if they are able to put people down.
If you are suffering from being bullied , Do not be afraid to speak up. Remember that No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. There's always people willing to help . Realize that most of the time , These bullies are only trying to put you down cos you're way above them. Every person is beautiful in their own way and do not let anyone tell you that you're not. You are created so special that you may have your own way of touching other people's lives. Just b'cos they don't see how wonderful you are doesn't mean that you're not wonderful. If you open your eyes , You will see how much you're loved and that you are a blessing to many people.
Do not let these bullies take away the things that makes you special.
They are not worth your tears , not worth your suffering and to those, with friends , family or kids , who have people suffering these things and aren't as strong enough to stand up for themselves , Hear them out and be a stronger voice. Sometimes all they need is to see someone willing to walk beside them in this fight against bullying so they would have the power to fight for themselves.
Stay strong little soldier and Remember that God is closest to the brokenhearted :)
Hi Irish,
TumugonBurahinI'm Marc, Myra's friend, and just wanted to let you know I enjoyed reading your blog and your writing above on bullying is very thoughtful and inspiring and hopefully will be read by someone for whom it could make a difference in their life.
Best wishes.
Marc